Infatuation by definition means to cause to be foolish, deprive of sound judgment and to inspire with an extravagant love or admiration. It’s interesting how something that sounds a bit negative (being foolish or deprived of our sanity) can feel so good.

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Do you remember telling your man that you adored red roses but he got you lilies for your birthday instead? Do you remember informing him that you desperately needed the dry cleaning picked up by 6 p.m., so you could wear that new red dress to the party?

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I thought it would be useful to provide some straight-from-the-heart advice about magnificent relationships. Sooner or later, almost everyone finds themselves in an intimate relationship. Too often, in my opinion, they end up being mediocre at best and painful at worse.

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I mean, these two are so hot their sweat sizzles, and they seem so in sync. They must be experiencing head-popping, earth-shattering sex night-after-night, right? Wrong. If you are one of the many people out there who are under the illusion that great sex is the byproduct of being with the sexiest or the “right” person, I’ve got a reality check for you to cash — even Posh and Becks get bored sometimes.

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How do you heal a broken marriage? After 35 years as a counselor, I have concluded that a broken marriage (a marriage in serious trouble) has the best chance of healing and recovery, if both partners follow five essential steps.

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Blind dates are not for the desperate. The reality is that blind dates can be really good ways to meet someone who is compatible with you. I’ve studied married couples and their relationship patterns for many years. You might be surprised to learn that when married people are asked how they met, the most common answer is, “We were fixed up.”

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With delicious heartthrobs like David Beckham setting the standard for male beauty, it’s totally hip these days for your guy to be metrosexual. It just means his grooming habits may rival yours — and that he may occasionally steal your moisturizer, borrow your hair highlighting kit, use your tweezers and hog the bathroom longer than you ever did. But if you’re just getting back into the man pool, or you’ve slept through the whole metrosexual revolution, you might find all of this a little confusing.

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As women, we like to think that if a man were cheating on us we would know. “A woman just knows” is a common belief among women. While we would like to think our intuitions are never wrong, can we really rely on bare instinct? Is it true that we are built with an innate sense we can depend upon as if it were written in the bible?

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What type of guy are you? Sounds like a trick question, right? Well the reason I ask this question is because there are certain “types” of guys which women absolutely LOVE. If you can fit into one of these categories, you’ll discover that it’ll require very little effort to attract a woman.

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Most have fallen into relationships with men who are egregiously unsuitable partners. Not men who became difficult, but men whose behavior from the beginning was a blinking neon sign warning Bad Mate Material.

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